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Tonia C. Fenstermaker

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Feb 1 1968
Mar 6 2021
53 Years
Nottingham, Township

Tonia C. Fenstermaker, 53, of Nottingham Twp., passed away on Saturday, March 6th, 2021 under the loving care of her life partner for 21 years Kerry Thomas.  Tonia is the daughter of Jerry Fenstermaker and stepmother Linda of Conestoga, Pa., and mother Barbara Fenstermaker and stepfather George of Nottingham.   

Besides her parents, she leaves behind her loving and caring life partner Kerry Thomas and one loving son Herbert McClain, his fiancé Maria and three loving grandsons, Jalen, Joel, and Jayceon.  She also leaves behind a loving brother Jason, sisters Corina Evans and Kelly Shank, stepsisters Cheryl Groff, Dina Harris, Donna Miller, and Debra Williams; her special uncle, William Harris of Nottingham and more aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins. 

She graduated from Oxford High School, class of 1986, where she was a cheerleader, in band, and track.

Tonia was employed by ACME Market for over 30 years.  She also worked part-time at Pocopson Nursing Home, Cameron's ACE Hardware, Herr Foods, Inc., and Griest Auction, which she loved doing.  

Tonia was a very loving and caring person, always willing and doing things for others.  

At Tonia's request, her funeral service will be private.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tonia's memory to Willow Tree Hospice Care, 616 E Cypress St, Kennett Square, PA 19348.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Wilde Funeral Home of Parkesburg.  Online condolences can be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com

Condolences

Kerry and family,

We are sadden to hear of Tonia's passing. She was a very kind person. I loved hearing stories of her grandsons:)

We will keep you and her family in our prayers.

Rob and Kim Thomas

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She will be missed, She was so nice and friendly. Always had smile on her face. She was very hardworking as well.

Submitted by Heather on
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Kerry, I am so sorry! Prayers and hugs go out to you and the family! She sure knew how to light up a room with that smile and laugh! She was loved by many! She will sure be missed!! 

 

 

Submitted by Kim on
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My most sincere heart felt condolences on the news of Tonia's passing.  No words can express all of our heart break and sorrow.  Without question, her pathway to heaven was llined with the gold that was within her heart.  Tonia would be the "go too" person for strength and wisdom during such a time but now we must stand together and embrace the spirit of her memories, love and devotion to her family and friends.  A strong spirited soul who would brighten everyones day with her smile and kindness.  A selflessness person who was so proud of her grandsons and shared her love of them with all.  I pray that we all feel her heavenly hand on our shoulder as we mourn her passing, letting us know she is at eternal rest.   See you on the other side Tonia I promise. 

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I was saddened I hear the Death of Tonia .I'd like to send all my prayers and condolences to all her family .RI P girl.Tonia was a co worker and a hard worker .She had a good heart to all who knew her ,always lending her hands of help to you.May god give u all comfort at this difficult time ❤️🙏

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Dear Jerry & Linda,

Thinking of you .  May it help to know that our many thoughts are there with you in this time of sorrow. In the days ahead, may you find some small comfort in your many happy memories. With our deepest sympathy.  Your former neighbors watching the girls grow up.

 

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It is very sad to hear about Tonia.  See was very devoted to her family and a model employee wherever she worked.  She always had a smile on her face and the best attitude.  I'm going to miss her and cherish the times for her friendship!

Submitted by Linda Williams on
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To all of Tonia's family, extended family, and loved ones: please accept my most sincere condolences on your loss of Tonia. We first met at Acme in 1988 when I started working at Oxford, and she was unfailingly helpful and cheerful, as well as an amazingly hard worker.  She always had a smile for everyone and a great sense of humor. She will be sorely missed by all.  May she Rest In Peace. 

 

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Barb, Kerry, Herbie and Family   Praying and Thinking of you all at this shocking turn of events.  Having worked with Tonia at Acme (closely) I never met a finer, more hardworking LADY in my life.  She was SO many things too numerous to mention here.  She loved her family so very much and sure loved those Annual Beach Trips too!  I'm heartbroken along with you.  Please accept my Deepest Sympathy!  Steve Seivwright

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Barb,Herbie and Kerry and family I'm so very sorry for your loss I've know Tonia forever ,she is one of the kindness caring friend with a heart of gold 💛 rest in peace my dear friend I will miss you. prayers for the family Fly with angels my friend.

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Kerry, Thomas Family & Fenstermaker Family

We were very saddened to hear of the passing of Tonia. Our Prayers and Thoughts go out to all of the families. Tonia was loved by all! Not only by us at Griest Auction but by all the customers as well. They would always ask “if Tonia was working “. Tonia was a very hard worker and we were so blessed she chose us to work for. Her smile, laugh and sense of humor would make the day go by so fast. Rest In Peace Tonia! You will be truly missed. But NEVER forgotten. We loved you!

Florine & Ken (Griest Auction)

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Barb, Jason, Herbie & sons, God will sustain you thru this difficult time. Know that He does not make mistakes and the rest of your family is here for you.~Psalm 116: 15~
Love, Linda and Family

Submitted by Linda Wallace on
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Herbie and kerry, I am so sorry for your loss. Tonia was a great person!!

Submitted by rj on
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Tonia was one of the hardest working women I have ever met. Very kind and always helpful. A great co- worker. She will be missed.

Submitted by Bruce Doherty on
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We are so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. All of you are family to us, we will keep all of everyone in our thoughts and Prayers. We are here for any of you-never forget that. Love, Christopher Ruffatt and Family.

 

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To the family,

I am so sorry to hear about Ms. Tonia's passing. She was soooo sweet and caring, always there to lend a helping hand. She was always supportive and loving when we would see each other. My condolences to Kerry, Herbie, Maria and grandbabies, and family, may she continue to love and watch over you all. I will keep you all in my prayers!

With Love,
April Ogburn

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Herbie, Kerry, Mom mom, Pop pop, and the Boys
Herbie,
Mom was a gift, given to me through you. Like you she was my friend when no-one else would be, we talked about so much and she helped and truly cared about me, I know that. I remember, that smile and how much she wanted me to do well in life. I'll never forget her.
Love you guys

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Barb and Family, 

I was so shocked to hear of Tonia's passing.  I had algebra class with her in 1983 and she was always happy and was a wiz at math. 

Sending you all big, big hugs. 

Polly

 

Submitted by Polly Mooney on
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Our sincerest sympathy to Kerry, Herbie and family and Tonia's parents. 

Tonia was the sweetest person and was loved by everyone who knew her.  She had an infectious smile and way about her that lit up a room when she was around.  She never had an unkind word about anyone in fact she went out of her way to lend a shoulder or a hand to anyone.  She wasn't a stranger to anyone after meeting them.  People gravitated to her just to be in her kind presence.  I'm sure she has brightened heaven and we know she is still watching over her loved ones.  George and I worked with her and she always made a night or sale go faster. She stopped by Gibneys's before we closed and even then going through all her treatments she didn't want anyone to worry about her.  She was a true friend.  Fly high girl, you deserve a place in heaven.  It is not for you we mourn as we know you are in a better place, it is for us left behind who will miss you dearly..

She was the best!  Its not goodbye but see you later.  Love Ruthann & George

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I am heartbroken to learn about Tonia's passing.  Tonia was one of my students in 6th, 7th & 8th grade classes.  We continued seeing each other through the years as I shopped at the Oxford ACME.  When it closed, I followed the ACME to Avondale to buy meat, but also to see Tonia.  She always had time for a quick chat, all the while hard at work.  I had no contact this past year due to the pandemic.  I shall miss her bright smile and shining spirit.  Until we meet again, my friend.

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Kerry 

We are so sorry.You did a great job taking care of Tonia. Our prayers and love go out to you and the family. God bless The Gorman family and Passick family 

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