James Kirk Wilde
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James Kirk Wilde, 84, of Parkesburg, passed away on Wednesday, November 27, 2013, at Honey Brook, after a lengthy battle with cancer. He was the husband
of Betty Stackhouse Wilde and they recently celebrated 61 years of marriage.
Born in Coatesville he was the son of the late James W. and Ruth Kirk Wilde.
He was a graduate of the former Parkesburg High School, Class of 1947, where
he served as class president. He was a graduate of the first two year class
of Eckels College of Mortuary Science in 1949, earned the Dean’s Award and
was a member of Eckels Fraternity Lambda Zeta Nu.
He proudly served as corporal in the US Army during the Korean War, working
as a Medical Aidman Instructor, the Quartermaster Corp, and in the Field
Operations service of the 8204th American Grave Registration Service.
He returned to Parkesburg and joined his family funeral home business as the
fourth generation and was still active alongside his son, brother and
nephews.
In 1986 he was honored in Florida by the National Funeral Director
Association and the United States Government for service in the Korean War
Casualties
He was a member of the First United Presbyterian Church of Parkesburg where
he served as Elder, Trustee, Deacon, youth director and choir member for many
years. He holds membership in the Chapel of the Four Chaplains of
Philadelphia.
He was a member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 4480 of Parkesburg.
He belonged to the former American Legion Post 431 of Parkesburg serving as
Adjutant, Chaplain and Judge Advocate. He was a life member of Legion Post
422 of Honey Brook. In 2001 he received the Military Order of the Purple
Heart.
He was a 50 year member of the former Keystone Lodge #569 F & AM of
Parkesburg and a current member of Brandywine Goddard Lodge #383 of
Coatesville.
He was a life member of the Parkesburg Fire Company and was an ambulance
driver for over 23 years and has received numerous civic awards.
Despite all his achievements and awards those closest to him will cherish his
role as a family man, his devotion to God, and his charity toward his
community. One of his last contributions was the “Welcome to Parkesburg”
sign in the heart of town. He is now welcomed in his heavenly home and
resides on our hearts.
In addition to his wife he is survived by a daughter, Sharon L., wife of
Miles K. Reinhart of Cochranville, James N., husband of Amy Chaballa Wilde of
Parkesburg, grandchildren, Gretchen, wife of Joe Torres of Macungie, Matthew
Reinhart of Cochranville, Lindsay, Joey and Abby Wilde of Parkesburg, and
great grandchildren, Haydn, Caleb and Alex Torres of Macungie, brothers,
Thaddeus W. and William S. Wilde of Parkesburg and an “adopted son” Jeff
Ramsden of Christiana. He was preceded in death by a sister, Dorcas Ryan.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a memorial service on Tuesday,
December 3, at 10:00 am from the Parkesburg United Presbyterian Church, 511
Main St., Parkesburg, PA. The family will receive visitation immediately
following the service. The internment will be private. PLEASE OMIT FLOWERS.
Memorial donations can be made to the Presbyterian Church at the above
address.
Condolences
Great man, great Masonic
Great man, great Masonic brother, great friend and true gentleman...role model personified. The Wilde Family are in our prayers. Jon and Gail Groy Smith
a wonderful and gody man
we will all miss you and your family is the best peoples we met that take you love and use it for the peoples we all will miss you so much you and your staff and teat every one like they are part of your family every one walk in you home well god need you more than we all did fly high my friend we all meet again thank to you and your staff for a well good job you do every day
Dear Wilde Family, I just
Dear Wilde Family,
I just want you all to know that your family are not alone in your loss, we will all miss Jim and know he has earned his place in Heaven. Mr. Wilde has been a friend to all of us in Parkesburg and one of the kindness people I know, he has helped many of us deal with our own sadness at the death of a loved one and now we want you to know that we are praying for all of you with your loss. I on a personal note know that Jim and our Betsy are in Heaven having their ice cream and enjoying all the friends that have gone before Him. Praying for peace and comfort at this very sad time for you all!
sooo sorry
Jimmy was always a very nice to my family he will be sorely missed
My Dear Wilde Family, Please
My Dear Wilde Family, Please accept my prayers for comfort and peace. I have such fond memories of Jim and will cherish them. He was quick to tell everyone he had known me since I was a baby! Our loss is Heaven's gain and I know we will meet again.
With much love,
Nancy and Steve
Although I am new to the
Although I am new to the family, and we do not get up to PA but once a year, I have a special place in my heart for Jim. He was one of the first who welcomed me to the family and his sincere love for people always shone through. Anytime I saw him, he wore a big smile. I am truly saddened by the news of his passing. He was a good man.
I am sure you, Betty, son Jimmy and the entire family will miss his presence dearly. I pray that all the happy memories of time spent with him soon replace the sorrow now in your heart. Holding you in thought and prayer for strength during this difficult time.
Love,
Doris
Deepest Sympathy
Jim was a wonderful man and I will treasure the memories of him treating each of my family members like a friend. The kindness and the compassion of the Wilde family in any situation has not gone unnoticed. Parkesburg has lost a wonderful man!
God Bless the family.
Sincere Sympathy And Friendship To The Wilde Family,
Parkesburg has lost a Wonderful, Compassionate and Kind Man. Our loss of Jim, is Heaven's gain. Everyone that knew Jim, loved him. If you were not family, he made you feel like family. We will cherish all the memories of Jim forever in our hearts.
With sincere sympathy and many prayers that God will give "The Wilde Family" His Help, His Strength and His Hope during this time of sorrow.
Take Care, God Bless,
Love You All,
Doris and Barry Aberts
Condolences
Jim
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. He was such a kind and gentle man and will be missed. We will be keeping all the your family in our thoughts and prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with you
My sister Celia just forwarded the news to me about Jim.It deeply breaks my heart I loved him so much.He and the Wilde family have been my friends since I was a child a million years ago.He always had a smile on his face and had time to talk with me.He and Bud are truly part of my family.Betty, Sharon, Jimmy, Bud,Bill and family my love and prayers to you.I have been blessed to have had him in my life.
Deepest sympathy
May god bless the family, our thoughts and prayers are with your family!!!
Prayers
My deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers to the Wilde family!
My deepest sympathy to the
My deepest sympathy to the entire Wilde family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
My prayers are with you all
As a caregiver it was very special for me to spend the last few weeks with Jim. Working 3rd shift I spent many nights sitting with Jim talking and learning so much from him. He always told me how much he loved all the Parkesburg kids he saw grow up. He was everyone's Pappy and we all love him. I will miss him and was blessed to know him. I am glad that I had the opportunity to give back to him a little of what he has given my family over so many years. before I left work on Wednesday morning he gave me a hug and I sat and held his hand for awhile. I will cherish that time for the rest of my life. My prayers are with the family I know this is a great loss to you all. May he rest in peace until you are all together again.
Deanna Mann Wolfe
Deepest Sympathy
So sorry to hear of Jim's passing.This community has lost a graet man who was a friend to all.Given so many of us comfort in our times of need and now we can give back by given you his family comfort and prays at this very difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing he is in heaven and you will all be together someday.
Marge Krumrine3
Praying for your family
Praying for your family. I worked at the pharmacy for years and years, and Jim was always a bright spot in my day. The Wilde family is a special one. Jim will be missed by so many in and around Parkesburg. Love and hugs to your family.
This is so shocking to hear.
This is so shocking to hear. I am so sad and just glad hes in a better place
my thoughts and prayers go out to this part of my family. I will miss how he made me laugh and tried to cheer me up every time i would see him. R.I.P. Jim u will never be forgotten.
So sorry for you all!
Jim, Sharon and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your dad. I cannot picture him without a smile on his face. I'm sure he is beaming now and will be happy to pull some strings for you up there in heaven. After all, EVERYBODY knows Jim Wilde, Sr.! I hope it will comfort you that he no longer suffers and is happy beyond measure.
Sincerely,
Mary & Dwight Weaver
Sorry for your loss
When Cindy's Dad passed away (Harold) I meet the Wilde Family for the first time. Jim helped Cindy's Mom thru the whole process and helped her grieve thru it as well. His kind words to all of us were so greatly appreciated.
Now it is our turn, and yet I cannot find just what to say. May your faith in our Lord allow you to greave thru this as it did Helen. May you remember all the words Jim would tell us in this time.
Your family was so good to us, may we be there for you.
Mike and Cindy Urbanik
Prayers for the Wilde Family
My prayers are with all of you at this time. Jim was a wonderful, caring, happy man. He (along with the other "Wilde Boys") have helped so many families through the years, when dealing with our grief. When my mom went home to Heaven, so many years ago, Jim & Bud helped my family through the process. They told me "Remember your Mom isn't suffering anymore and is now in Heaven". So please know that Jim is having a wonderful reunion with all his loved ones who went ahead of him and he is now healthy again. My heart goes out to all of you, because it's always difficult for those left behind. Jim was loved by all who knew him and will be missed. Praying our Lord will give you comfort through this time of grieving.
Parkesburg has lost a
Parkesburg has lost a "Pillar" of the community. Growing up in the area we have the fondest memories of his kindness and smiling face. No matter where you were or who you are, he went out of his way to offer a friendly smile and a positive greeting. We will miss him.
Our condolence to the Wilde
Our condolence to the Wilde family for the loss of a good man and our friend Jim. We will miss him.
Prayers to the Wilde Family
I was so sad to have learned of your great loss. Jim was an outstanding
person with a wonderful smile and personality, he will be missed.
Prayers and thoughts to all.
Sorry for your Loss.
Sorry for your Loss. Parkesburg lost a great person. He will be greatly missed by all.
sad to hear
Our sad condolences go out to Bud, Bill, and all the Wilde family. Jim was known to everyone in Parkesburg, and I never heard him speak ill of anyone. A great community leader, and advisor, he will be missed by all.
Our most sincere condolences
Our most sincere condolences to the Wilde family. You are special people! We will be remembering you all in our prayers.
We have lost a friend
Jim Wilde was such an important part of the church and the community. We have lost a good friend. Our sincere condolences to Betty, Sharon, Jimmy, and all the Wildes.
Jim's passing
Betty, Sharon and Jim and all the Wildes,
It is with much sadness that we read of Jim's passing. I have many fond memories of Jim through the years. He was a true gentleman and a good friend to my family. I am a better person for having known him. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Norm and Nancy Pine
Sincerely sorry for your loss
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I was always happy to see him about town. He always had kind words to say, waving hello or asking a sincere how are you? He was always kind to my kids when they went to his yard to "visit" with him. They've never forgot him and often asked about him.
with deepest regards,
family of George and Maureen Henry
Our Deepest Sympathy
This is a sad day in the Young family.Many wonderful memories growing up on Main Street in Parkesburg and Jimmy was one of them. Judy and I are thankful for the opportunity we had to spend the afternoon with Jimmy and Betty in October of 2010. It was a great day. We will all miss him very much. You are all in our prayers.
Love,
Bill, Judy, Bill, Steve and Lori Young
I cannot imagine walking into
I cannot imagine walking into Wilde's and not being greeted by Jim. He has assisted our family many times, over the years, as we gathered to say goodbye to a loved one; so many loved ones, both family & friends. He was one fine man & will be missed by the community. Our sympathy to the entire Wilde family.
Jim Wilde
so sorry to hear of Jim's battle,just saying goodbye to a longtime friend I was once in the top of a large walnut tree bordering j
Jim's yard.Jim hollered up to me after making hand signs like he was measuring me for a box. He said Don't fall Smitty ha ha ha .what a great guy and will really be missed.
A sad day in Parkesburg
I cant imagine attending a service at the Wilde Funeral Home ,with Jim not extending his arms and welcoming me like family! He always had a smile on his face. I'll (ACE) remember most our ball playing ang the good times had by all. Our prayers go out to the entire Wilde family and will keep you in our prayers.
Our deepest sympathy to the Wildes'
Jim and my husband were good friends and always had a good time on trips that we took. He and his wife were dear friends to me. I will miss his kindness and friendship. My condolences to his wife, Betty.
Mary Lerch
To The Wilde Family
TO ALL THE WILDE FAMILY. SENDING OUR CONDOLENCES. JIM WAS AN EXCEPTIONAL INDIVIDUAL AND WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS A TRUE AND WONDERFUL MAN. YES WE ARE SAD TO HEAR THIS AND WE KNOW HE IS REJOUCING WITH ALL ABOVE. THE LORD HAS WELCOMED ONE MORE GREAT PERSON TO THE REAL WORLD. KEV'S MOM MARGARET I'M SURE SHE AND JIM ARE HAVING A CONVERSATION TOGETHER AND WITH MANY OTHERS. JIM IS FREE OF ALL THE BAD AILMENTS AND WATCHING OVER ALL. THE ENTIRE TOWN OF PARKESBURG WILL NOT BE THE SAME WITH JIM WILDE NOT SHAKING ONES HAND AND BEING SO VERY KIND WHEN ONE IS IN NEED OF HIS SERVICE. WILDE FAMILY IS THE BEST. MANY OF OUR FAMILY HAD THE BEST FUNERAL SERVICE BY THE WILDE FUNERAL FAMILY. THEY BECOME YOUR FAMILY AND YOU CAN ONLY BUT LOVE THEM.
PRAYERS BE WITH YOU, SORRY FOR THE LOSS.
SINCERELY, LOVE KEVIN AND TINA WILSON.
The Lord Called Him Home
We've been going to this funeral home for years and it was always a pleasure to walk in and see Mr. Wilde standing there at the door greeting everyone. He was a pleasure to have known him and always a delight to see. The heavens have definitely gained an angel.
DEEPEST SYMPATHY
DEAR BETTY AND FAMILY SO VERY SORRY TO SEE YOUR BILL HAS PASSED - HE JUST GAVE ME AND MY CLASSMATES A BIG HUG AT THE VIEWING OF CHARLES KEINARD 11/23 MAY ALL YOR MEMLORIES CONSOLE YOU AT THIS TIME, SINCERELY, NANCY PITCHERELLA
Deepest sympathy to the Wilde Family
It is with great sorrow when I read that Jim had passed away. I can honestly say that he was a great man, and will be truly missed. Jim was full of compassion when handling the final requests for family members that had passed away. I can remember talking to him and his family when I needed to make arrangements for both of my parents, my sister and numerous other family members. It is really hard to say goodbye to a loved one. May God be with you in your time of sorrow. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
So sorry
We are so sorry to hear the loss of Jim. We pray for his soul to be home resting with our LORD peacefully. He is such a caring individual and our prayers go out to the Wilde's - Betty, Sharon, Jimmy and the entire family.
God Bless, Lisa & Rob Westervelt
Dear Wilde's,
When we think of Jim Wilde the word Character comes to mind. A man with moral and mental excellence. Morally honest, lives by virtues and always loving. Mentally healthy, Jim was sharp and full of life. He was a character of fun and always helping you to smile. We remember a kind and generous man who knew, loved and served God and taught his family the same. We will never forget Jim Wilde. Our sympathy and prayers are with you.
Blessings and Peace, The Alansky Family
Thank you
I want to give many thanks to Mr. Wilde and the Wilde Family for being there when my family needed you most... I only hope your family can find peace in the Prayers that are being sent their way..
Our deepest sympathy to the
Our deepest sympathy to the family at this time. What a great person and loved by so many people. He surely will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.MM
To the Wilde Family: So sorry
To the Wilde Family:
So sorry to read of Jim's passing. Will miss seeing him as we walk thru the door of funerals. Such a great guy! You are all in our thoughts & prayers. May he rest in peace, till we see him again.
Hal, Joanne, Arlene Hogg & The Hogg Electric guys
Please accept our most
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss..our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.
With our love,
The Thompson Family
We are very sorry to hear of
We are very sorry to hear of Jim's passing.He was a great help to us several times. Our hearts go out to his family.
Words cannot express the loss
Words cannot express the loss everyone feels. Our sons grew up in the Presbyterian Church and Pappy was such an integral part of that growing up. Pappy always told them "You mamma brought you into this world and I'll help her take you out if you aren't good." Didn't matter how long it has been since we have seen Pappy but he always made me and my family feel like a part of the family. Pappy is in Heaven, dancing with the angels, playing his trumpet in the heavenly bands, and talking to God about all of his "kids", real, adopted, and not. Please accept our condolences and also our joy that Pappy is no longer on earth, in pain and having difficulty breathing but that he is in heaven with his savior.
Love,
The Supplees
Prayers
Dear Betty
John and I send our deepest sympathy to you, Sharon and Jimmy. We have many fond memories of the days when we all were young----the great times at church and when we got together with that special group of friends we had when living in Parkesburg. There was much laughter and fun with our young children and the parties we had.
We send our thoughts, love, and prayers to all the family at this sad time
and know that Jim is with our Lord and Savior.
Prayerfully,
Donna and John Wolf
The Epitome Of A Great Man
Jim loved God, his family, and his community. A friend among friends, he respected all he came in contact with. His engaging smile and friendly manner will be sorely missed in Parkesburg.
I was saddened to learn of
I was saddened to learn of Mr. Wilde's passing. My parents and Mr. and Mrs. Wilde were friends for a lifetime. I'll never forget the professionalism...and especially the compassion...of the extended Wilde family as all of you helped us through Dad's passing in late March of this year, followed by Mom's in mid-August. To Mrs. Wilde, and all of the Wilde family - I offer you my sincerest condolences in your time of loss. Jim has truly entered the Kingdom of Heaven. I regret that I was unable to travel to Pennsylvania to say one last goodbye.
James K. Wilde
Who consoles the consolers. I've known Jim for as long as I've known anyone and in every situation he has always been kind, compassionate and considerate. Jim is part of the community and his great good humor will be missed.
To the Wilde Family
Please except my sincere condolences for the loss of Jim. A great man with a great smile, he will be missed in the community for sure!
Sorry for your Loss
Jim, Amy and family,
I was heartbroken to hear of your father's passing. He was a dear man who was always there to help others in their times of sorrow. May God's comfort and strength be with you throughout this time as you grieve for your loss.
If there is anything I can do, please don't hestitate to ask.
Love, Tammy
My condolences to your family
My condolences to your family with Jim's passing. He was a great person to
sit and talk with and I will miss him. Let me know if you need anything
love to all pam
Close Friend Of Your Family
My Prayers Are With All Of You. He Was A Really Good Man. He Knew All Of Us By Name Which I Thought Was Amazing Since There Was So Many Of Us. We All Loved & Respected Him. All Of You Take Care & Trust In The Lord. I Will Be Saying Prayers For All Of You, Your Friend Virginia
Thinking of the family
What sad day and loss for the community to say nothing of the loss to the family. You are all in my thoughts.
Kathi Rendall
My sympathy
Thank you, Jim Wilde, for your gracious, kind spirit. You told me at Jack McClay's funeral that you pray for my dad everyday. God bless you for passing your faith in Christ onto those who knew you. You will be missed, may you rest in peace with your creator and savior.
My thoughts and prayers are
My thoughts and prayers are with the Wilde family. Jim and all of the family has done and continue to do so much for the community.
My Deepest Sympathy
To the Wilde Family: Please know that you all have been in my thougts and prayers. Bud, Jim and my dad, John (who passed on 4 years ago) used to stop for coffee at the Little Chef ll restaurant in Parkesburg and "solve all the world's problems", at least that is what my dad called it. But what I remember most about seeing them there together was the laughter and they seemed to know every single person who walked through the door of that restaurant! I hope happy memories like this one along with the millions of your own will comfort you along with knowing that Mr. Jim is up in heaven with Jesus and all those who have gone up before him.
My deepest condolences
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. This was a great man! As he helped me through my most difficult time I truly hope that you find comfort in knowing that his service to the community is held close to my heart! Men like this are very few and this is a sad loss to our world! I am so sorry and again offer my deepest condolences.
My deepest sympathy to your
My deepest sympathy to your family.
Our Deepest Sympathy to the Wilde Family
There are no words that can truly express how sorry I was to hear of Jim's passing. He was a man of true dedication to his family, friends, faith and community. Jim always had a story to share, a smile to welcome you and most importantly a laugh that was infectious. He loved his family and loved talking about them. Jim will be missed by all that knew him and his community that he cared so much about. May Betty, Sharon, Jimmy and all his family be comforted by their memories. I will keep you in my prayers.
God bless you all.
In Sympathy
To The Wilde Family
I am extremely sorry to hear of your loss. May The Lord keep you in your time of need. Keeping you prayer. In Christ's Love Debra