William H. Backenstose

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William H. Backenstose, 75, of West Grove, formerly of E. Fallowfield and Parkesburg, passed away at his home on Sunday, August 7, 2011. He was the husband of Ethel Wise Backenstose with whom he shared 50 years of marriage. Born in Parkesburg, he was the son of the late William and Alene Matthews Backenstose.
 
Bill was an area resident all his life. He proudly served in the US Navy from 1956 to 1960. He was employed by Philadelphia Electric retiring in 1993 as an estimator/designer. After his retirement he was employed at the Chester County Airport.

He was a member of the Brandywine-Goddard Masonic Lodge #383 F.&A.M, the Shriners; the NRA, the VP-44 Squadron; the AOPA and the West Caln Sportsmen's Club.

He is survived, in addition to his wife, by his son, Timothy Backenstose, husband of Holly, of Downingtown, daughter, Tammy Deranleau, wife of Greg, of Colorado; three grandchildren, Amanda Backenstose of Gaithersburg, Md., Hunter Backenstose of Downingtown, Camille Deranleau of Colorado and sister, Denise LaMar of Bowling Green, KY; cousin Lois Gamble of North Carolina and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by one brother David Backenstose.

Memorial services will be held on Saturday, August 20th at 11 AM at the Oxford United Presbyterian Church, 6 Pine Street, Oxford, PA.   


In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Neighborhood Hospice of Chester County, 795 E. Marshall St. West Chester, PA 19386, or to Shriners Hospitals for Children, Office of Development 2900 Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607.    

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Wilde Funeral Home of Parkesburg.  Online condolences may be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com  

Condolences

TO ETHEL AND THE FAMILY,SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,THE SHORT TIME WE MET YOU FOLKS WE ENJOYED YOUR COMPANY.!!!!!!!

Submitted by al and sandy lewis on
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I am so sad to read about Bill's passing. What a wonderful fete to be married 50 years. My prayers and love go to you, may you experience peace.

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Dear Mrs. Backenstose, Tim, Tammy, and family,

I was stunned and saddened to learn of Mr. Backenstose's passing. You all were such an important part of my childhood. I have such wonderful memories of spending time with you on your boat in MD, of sleepovers at your house, and even getting haircuts! I can't even imagine how you all must be feeling. I already think of you all often and fondly; now I will also be sending you my deepest sympathies and biggest hugs.

Lots of love,
Aimee

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Dear Ethyl,
My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss of Bill. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary

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Dear Ethel,

You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear husband, Bill. I will pray for him and for you. God bless you and your family. Sincerely, Pat

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Our deepest sympathy to Ethel and the family at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. What a great looking couple you made.

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Tim,

I don't know if you remember me but we were childhood friends. I was sorry to read of your father's passing. I remember him and your mother from when you lived in Parkesburg and East Fallowfield.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Norm Pine

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Holly and Tim - I was so sorry to hear about your dad's passing - I will always remember Mom, Greg and I coming to your house to play on several occasions growing up "in the good ole days". Thoughts and prayers to you and all of your family.
Jill

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Dear Ethel, Tim and Tammy - I was very saddened to learn of Bill's passing. I have some great childhood memories from your house on Old Wilmington Rd - haircuts, sleepovers, Girl Scouts, Band and friendship. I remember those times fondly and am glad we can keep up on Facebook. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. With my deepest sympathy and love.

Submitted by Jennifer Moore on
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I was so very sad to hear the news of Mr. B's passing. It also brought back so many wonderful memories of growing up as best buds with Tam, fun times at Old Wilmington Road, not to mention some great trips on the boat, and too many memories to count here!

I will miss your dad, and I pray for God's presence and peace over you all as you work through this tough time together.

Love & Hugs -

Jill

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I did not know Mr. Backenstose personal, but I had the honor to meet his daughter, Tammy. I was told once as a young girl, "Children are a reflection of their parents". That being the case I can only imagine what a wonderful man Mr. Backenstose was. There is a endless kindness to Tammy and when I found out her father was ill you could see the love and devotion she felt for not only her father but her mother as well. Tammy shows her love of life, friends and above all her family in everything she does. That is something that can only be taught by example and for that I would like to take this opportunity to say thank Mr. Backenstose for being the kind of father ever little girl deserves, and for helping to mold a woman I am proud to call my friend.
All my love to the family and friends of Mr. William H. Backenstose,
The Saldarriaga family in Colorado

Submitted by Patricia Saldarriaga on
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Ethel, we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our hearts and prayers.

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My dearest Aunt Ethel,

I'm just learning of the passing of Uncle Bill and wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you, Tim, Tammy and Families. I carry fond memories of our time together despite living in Illinois. Uncle Bill had a way of making me feel special anytime we got together (no surprises here) and I so thank him for that.

I wish I could be back to show my love and support but I'm comforted knowing your Family will be with you. Celebrate Uncle Bill's wonderful life and do so knowing I am praying for you and Family as we mourm his passing.

All my Love........Ronnie

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Ethel and family, very, very sorry for your loss, Bill was a great guy. Rich

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I HAVE KNOWN BILL FOREVER. WE GO BACK TO 4TH AVE IN PARKESBURG AROUND
1945. LATER I HAD THE PLEASURE TO WORK WITH HIM AT PECO FOR OVER 30 YEARS.
ALWAYS A GENTLEMAN, ALWAYS A FRIEND. WE HAD MANY GOOD TIMES AT WORK AND
AT PLAY. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL.

Submitted by BILL TENNANT on
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Ethel, Martha & I were so sorry to hear about the death of Bill.
It seems it was just the other day I talked to him at our last reunion. We didn't know he was ill.
Our sincere condolences. Best to you as you go through these difficult times.
Love.
Ron & Martha

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Dear Ethel, so sorry to hear of Bill's passing. I send my most sincere
sympathy to you and your family.
We were neighbors for a long time, many memories of that time.
May God bless you in this your time of grief.
Sincerely,
Peg Copeland

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Tim,

I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tough time.

Sincerely,

Meg Rosato

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