Jonathan Mark Xagas

Jon and I became friends a couple years back. He was always a person who gave you an honest answer. If he did not know, he would say it. I think we became friends because we have similar characteristics. Some people would even think we were arguing when we had conversations. Most of the time it was just in good fun. Other times if someone stepped on a toe, the other would say sorry and move on. I am sorry that we did not get to fulfill some of the plans we had for the future.Take care my friend. I will miss you.

My condolences to the family. you don't know me, i'm a friend of Cali's thru Cristofer Esimio (Step dad). I'm heartbroken for Cali, losing both parents at a young age. I can't say enough about Cali, after my wife (Cristofer's mom) had her mastectomy 1 1/2 years ago, when Jan came home, Cali was over everyday helping around our condo, and helping Jan with all her needs. Jan thought of Cali as another daughter. After Jan's passing, she was at Cristofer's side the whole time, helping him get through, and dealing with the memories of her mom's passing. Please keep Cali in your prayers, now and forever, she's gonna need a lot of support for the upcoming years. May her Dad rest in peace.

Jeff Kahn

This condolence goes to Jordan XAGAS as well as Danny and Cali. It has sadden me beyond what a broken heart can stand to hear of the passing of Jon XAGAS. Jon was not only my boss but my friend as well
We were very close and I remember babysitting for Jordan and Danny as Jon and Lori called Daniel.
I remember when you were born Jordan,You were all Jon talked about. I enjoyed babysitting you and helping your brother with his homework. I can recall how your Dad borrowed my car to get back and forth to work. Recalling when you lived in West Chester Pa.
You really had to know Jon to understand that underneath that stern look was a Heart of gold. It was Jon who helped me deal with "Death" when I lost my friend and my love,My Husband. Jon understood and allowed me take all the time I needed from work to grieve. I visited your home many times and had the pleasure to see you,Jordan grow up. Jordan: I KNOW YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A DIFFICULT TIME RIGHT NOW.... AND YOU CAN BE SURE THAT GOD KNOWS IT,TOO.
I WISH I COULD DO SOMETHING TO MAKE EVERYTHING ALRIGHT, BUT SINCE I CAN'T I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I'M HURTING FOR YOU AND PRAYING FOR YOU.
SOMETIMES WE WONDER WHY THINGS LIKE THIS HAPPEN I DON'T HAVE THE ANSWERS, BUT I DO KNOW THIS GOD WON'T LET YOU GO THROUGH THIS BY YOURSELF.HE WILL BE WITH YOU ALL THE WAY.HE'S ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED HIM, AND HE WANT SO MUCH TO COMFORT YOU ,JORDAN DANNY AND CALI. HE'LL GIVE YOU THE COURAGE TO CARRY ON,THE STRENGTH TO HANDLE WHATEVER COMES.
IF THERE'S SOMETHING I CAN DO FOR YOU I WANT TO HELP IN ANYWAY I CAN.
SO PLEASE PLEASE REMEMBER THAT YOU'RE NEVER ALONE, BECAUSE GOD CARES ......AND WITH HEARTFELT SYMPATHY SO DO I.

SADLY SUBMITTED BY MARY A WEST LYNN

Jordan,Cali and Daniel:
You may or you may not Remember me. I had the pleasure of working with your dad And want to inform you that he was a wonderful person Jon was caring, giving and would tell you what what's in his mind,Your dad didn't sugarcoat anything. If he didn't like you you flat out knew it. Cali so sad you've lost both parents at such a young age. It's heartbreaking that Jordan and Cali are without both parents. Cali look to your big sister and brother now. Stay together as a family for I'm sure that's what Jon wanted.

Words alone cannot express my heartfelt sympathy.
Respectfully submitted the LYNN family

I'm thinking of you girls everyday. Though we didn't see each other except for your baptism we had photos and the occ call. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for you all every day. We must get together with your Uncle Steve and go through photos and mementos. Your grandma Xagas had a nursery in her home before anybody had children! She would have loved you both dearly, babysat and given you everything your parents wouldn't want you to have! Later we'll talk about getting together. You both are always welcome and lovingly received. God bless you.

Dear Jordan & Calli,

We are so sorry for your loss. As your neighbors we have seen you grow up and know that your parents have raised two beautiful sweet girls. We will be praying for you and are here to support you if you need our help. Your Dad and Mom will be watching over you in heaven and protecting you.
You will be in our prayers,
God Bless you & your Family
The Merriman Family
605 Ashberry Court

We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Your neighbors,
The Fuzer Family-

Shortly after the Xagas family moved into our neighborhood, my youngest daughter Tori met Cali on the school bus. It was the start of many years of them being inseparable. Cali was always a welcome addition to our house. She always exhibited the utmost respect and manners-always thanking us for having her over. During the last 6-7 years Tori has slept over the Xagas house many nights and accompanied them on vacations. She covets those times as cherished memories. Less than 2 weeks ago, Cali was back at the house filming a video for a school project. She and the others were laughing and having fun.

We in Timbercrest have felt a huge void, beginning with the loss of Lori and now exacerbated by the loss of Jon, who was a quiet but loving father who was very tolerant of teen age girls visiting(my daughter and others!)Jon kept an impeccable home and lawn. Our community will be negatively impacted by the loss of Jon and his girls, Jordan and Cali. We in Timbercrest will love and miss them tremendously! My family will keep Cali and Jordan in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Dear Cali and family,
I am so sorry to just learn of this sad sad news. My heart aches for you. Cali, you were there for our family to help so many times and especially when Cristofer's mom (my daughter) was so sick with cancer. Please let me know if I can do anything to help. Please keep in touch. I am so heartbroken for you and your sister and brother. Mam Mom

May God Bless Jordan, Cali and Daniel and all the Gill Family.
You are all in my prayers.

Always,

Judy (Evans) Carman

Rest easy, Jon. Your spirit will live on with us always. I just drove by your boyhood home last week and thought of you. Love you, man.

I forgot to sign my remembrance....this is your friend, Clint.

Jon and his family lived just down the street from me in St. Charles, and we were in school together from 6th grade on through high school. I have often thought if him and wondered where life led him. I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your father. Jon will be missed! (My daughter lived and worked in Philadelphia and used to live in West Deptford, NJ. until she moved in 2012)

I was saddened to hear about Jon's death. I knew him back in high school. My sincere condolences to his family.

Belated condolences to Jon's children, I can't imagine what it must be like losing your parents at such young ages. I only found out about Jon's passing several months ago from a mutual friend. Jon and I were best of friends, cronies, classmates at Guilford College, Greensboro, N.C. We weren't roommates, but we might as well have been, we spent that much time together. He was ONE OF A KIND, just a SUPER, GREAT, FUN LOVING, FRIEND. We lost touch over the years, as sometimes happens to friends, but after the Guilford College Alumni Directory came out, I called him at the number listed, and after several unsuccessful tries, he finally answered one evening and we must have talked and cut up and laughed for a couple of hours on the phone that evening, as if it'd been just the day before that we last spoke. His friendship, fun loving, good natured personality helped get me through some tough times when we were in school together. I've missed him since I heard the news...  

,