Jeffrey C. Tobelmann, Jr., 30, of West Caln, passed away at his home on Tuesday, August 29, 2017, after a long battle with addiction. Born in Coatesville, he was the son of Patricia Ann (Tester) Tobelmann of Lancaster City and Jeffrey C., Sr. and Elizabeth Tobelmann of Gap.
He attended Coatesville Schools and had most recently worked as a Landscaper.
He is survived, in addition to his parents, by his siblings, Angela Cabassa, Anthony Cabassa, Rich Jason, Ryan Tobelmann, and Abby Tobelmann; maternal grandparents, Alfred and Sandra Tester of West Caln with whom he lived, and Kay and Donald Doran of Exton. And numerous aunts, uncles and cousins, and his dearest friend Ashley Sfetkof.
He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather, Henry J. Tobelmann, Jr.
The Funeral Service will be held on Friday, September 1st, 2017 at 11 AM at Wilde Funeral Home, 434 Main St., Parkesburg, Pa, with a viewing from 9:30 until 11 AM.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Jeffrey C. Tobelmann to Kacie's Cause, Parkesburg Chapter, online at www.kaciescause.com, or mail a check to Kacie's Cause, 232 Longwood Road, Kennett Square, PA 19348.
Online condolences can be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com
Condolences
Ii am so sorry for your loss.
Ii am so sorry for your loss. Way too young!
May you feel God's arms around you all at this time.
I am so so sadden from this
I am so so sadden from this sort of loss. This battle so many Can't beat. God rest his soul. Prayers Paryers..He will be missed and always on our minds...
Sorry to hear of your sons
Sorry to hear of your sons passing. Our sympathy and thoughts are with you.
My prayers are with your family!
I am sorry for your loss, Hugs and prayers to you all during this difficult time.
Karen, I am so sorry to hear
Karen, I am so sorry to hear of Jeffreys passing. I know you loved him and tried to keep him on the right path. He is free now from the horrible disease. Thinking of you and your family.
So sorry to hear of the loss
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. May gods touch get you and your family through this very difficult time. Many prayers being lifted up for you.
Jeff,
Jeff,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Awe...i have no words to
Awe...i have no words to express my feelings. I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
So sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss. I knew
Sorry for your loss. I knew him when he was little. Gone to soon. My prayers are with you and your famuly.
Jeff , the whole situation is
Jeff , the whole situation is every fact is very sad . My condolences to the whole family and big Jeff .Jeff you were a good man who loved to make everyone smile. Until we all meet again , love Matonti
Our deepest sympathy
Our sorrow and deepest sympathy. Please know your West Caln family is thinking of you.
Condolences
Jeff, Beth and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you.
DeAnna Zynn and Family
Hoping....
Hoping that you made it and that God has oil paints and canvases waiting for you to paint the things that were in your heart. I love you and will miss you being here with us Jeffrey. Gr. Aunt Bev
My deepest and sincere condolences
I am very sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He was an awesome guy and had a heart of gold. He was a very sweet guy. He would give you the shirt off his back if he could've. I now hope that his walking the streets of gold in heaven and he's no longer in pain anymore, Once again I am very sorry for your loss and I send my deepest sympathies to the family.
Jeff,
So sorry for your loss, my thought and prayers are with you and your family.
Regards,
Joe
Im so sorry. My thoughts and
Im so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Jeff's family and friends.
Dear Jeff, Our thoughts and
Dear Jeff, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time. Sincerely, Leslie and Vernon Ferguson and Rosemary Rice.
Heavy Heart
To all the family. Death and loss is never convenient, nor does it ever really seem appropriate for any reason. That is why we have life and with all the good and the bad, its problems and joys, we must pick through the moments that bring us closer to each other. This brings the truth of life into focus, Love matters the most. The love of Jesus Christ, family and friends. I love you all and hope you find grace and peace in the coming days.
Now Rest in Peace
Rest in peace, dear nephew. We hold you close in our hearts forever. Now, feel the love of your Savior and Redeemer envelop you and welcome you home with open arms. Join PopPop Tobelmann in watching over us here on earth. We love you and miss you, but know we will see you one day again in a great reunion in heaven. My love to my brother, Jeffrey, Sr., and to my whole family whose hearts are breaking. I pray for peace in our souls to accept these tedious reminders of this crazy ride called life, and that we are mortal. But I know we can do hard things. This is the hardest, by far.
Jeff, I'm so sorry for your
Jeff, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find comfort knowing your son is at peace and with the lord.
Patty so sorry to hear of
Patty so sorry to hear of your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sue from Drays
Jeff, we never met your son
Jeff, we never met your son but he was part of our family. So sorry to hear of his passing so young. Our condolences to you and your family.
Uncle Warren and Aunt Anna May
Jeff and Family,
Jeff and Family,
We're so sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you in these difficult times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love Christine and Ashley
(Heatherwood)
(Heatherwood)
Words seem inadequate to
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness, Wishing you Peace to bring comfort, Courage to face the days ahead and Loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
Heartfelt sympathies for your loss
Christine & Jay Warihay
My thoughts and prayers are
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff , I first met you at
Jeff , I first met you at Heatherwood when my sister was living there. We occassionally talked about problems . Every family has them . was so shocked when I read Jeff's obiturary . Our sincere condolences to you and your family . So sad for you . Phyllis Short and family , and Louella Ferri
We are very saddened to hear
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of deep sorrow. May God comfort your hearts and give you strength during the difficult days ahead. (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17)
Jeannie was a wonderful
Jeannie was a wonderful person she will be missed. She was a very good singer so she will be singing up in Heaven. Everyone loved to hear her sing and we all loved her. Miss you Jeannie. Pat Rice
Loss of your son
Jeff and family. I am so sorry to see that you have lost your son. The struggle is real, as you know all to well at this point in your life with addiction. He has now reached the point where he is struggling no more, wanting no more, needing no more, sick no more. Your son is at peace. I send you prayers of peace and sympathy.
With Sympathy
I wish to convey my sincerest condolence to your entire family. It breaks our hearts when death separates us from the ones we love so much especially when they are as young as Jeffrey. At times like these, "God is near to those who are broken at heart; And those crushed in spirit he saves." (Psalm 34:18) I hope this will bring you a measure of comfort.